{"id":3107,"date":"2021-11-05T13:56:04","date_gmt":"2021-11-05T13:56:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/?p=3107"},"modified":"2021-11-05T13:56:22","modified_gmt":"2021-11-05T13:56:22","slug":"kill-discouragement-songwriting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/kill-discouragement-songwriting\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Tips For Slaying Discouragement When Writing A Song"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Songwriting can be a discouraging endeavor, especially when you&#8217;re struggling to put together anything that sounds good to you.<\/p>\n<p>The good news is you probably don&#8217;t need to feel discouraged&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>And in this article I&#8217;ll give you 10 tips for banishing discouragement from your songwriting life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972122\">1. Have The Right Mindset<\/h2>\n<p>As with just about everything, whether or not you succeed or fail at something usually comes down to your mindset.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When you run into obstacles or difficulties, how do you mentally respond?<\/p>\n<h3>Some songs you write won&#8217;t be good, but that&#8217;s okay<\/h3>\n<p>Embrace the concept of being &#8220;prolific&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center; color: rgb(54, 52, 53) !important; --tcb-applied-color:rgb(54, 52, 53)  !important;\">Prolific<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Present in large numbers or quantities; plentiful.<\/p>\n<p>The artist Pablo Picasso is considered to have created 100 &#8220;masterpieces&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Wow! That&#8217;s a lot!<\/p>\n<p>But do you know how many pieces of artwork he published?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.picassomio.com\/art-articles\/picasso-how-many-artworks-did-picasso-create-in-his-life-time.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Turns out he created:<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span>13,500 paintings<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>100,000 graphic prints or engravings<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>34,000 book illustrations<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>300 sculptures and ceramics<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This means Picasso created a total of 147,800 total artworks, but only 100 of them were considered masterpieces.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s a 0.068% rate of creating something &#8220;great&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And yet he is considered a great artist.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t focus on writing a &#8220;great&#8221; song. Just focus on writing. Be prolific.<\/p>\n<h3>Every song written is a win<\/h3>\n<p>Look at every song you write as a victory.<\/p>\n<p>Each song you written means you&#8217;ve made improvement.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sure, quality is important too, but if you are writing songs intentionally, then each song written will get you closer to the quality you are seeking.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to publish every song you write.<\/p>\n<p>However, when it comes to music, &#8220;quality&#8221; is very subjective.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Some of the most popular songs of all time weren&#8217;t very much liked by the bands who created them, and they were only added to albums as filler.<\/p>\n<p>One example of this is the band &#8220;Toto&#8221;, they, &#8220;didn&#8217;t think it should be on the album&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but I&#8217;m very thankful they decided to include &#8220;Africa&#8221; on the album and release it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"3289\" width=\"600\" data-init-width=\"1080\" height=\"349\" data-init-height=\"628\" title=\"africa\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/africa.jpeg\" data-width=\"600\" data-height=\"349\" ml-d=\"0\" style=\"\" mt-d=\"-3.5\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972123\">2. Write A Lot Of Songs<\/h2>\n<p>If you simply write a lot of songs, and get in the habit of just writing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Then it won&#8217;t really bother you when any given song doesn&#8217;t turn out as well as you&#8217;d like.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You know that you&#8217;re going to be writing a bunch more songs, so it doesn&#8217;t really matter in the grand scheme of things.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So write a lot of songs, and it will be hard to feel discouraged.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972124\">3. Remember Why You Write Songs<\/h2>\n<p>What&#8217;s your reason fro writing music? Sure you probably enjoy it, but you probably have a bigger reason for writing music.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Is it to bring joy to others?<\/p>\n<p>Share a message?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>What do you love about songwriting?<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re feeling discouraged, it may be because you&#8217;re putting too much pressure on yourself to achieve something&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Rather than just allowing yourself to enjoy the process of songwritting.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Remember what you love about songwriting, and why you write music, and keep that your focus.<\/p>\n<p>Doing so will actually help you to write better songs too!<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972125\">4. Listen To Older Successful Songs You&#8217;ve Written<\/h2>\n<p>Go back and find those songs you&#8217;ve written in the past and that were a breeze to write.<\/p>\n<p>Remind yourself that you can write good songs, and maybe even take note of what those &#8220;good&#8221; songs have in common.<\/p>\n<p>Can you recall what your process was when writing them?<\/p>\n<p>Can any part of that process be duplicated as you go about writing a new song?<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972126\">5. Make Yourself A Songwriting Guide<\/h2>\n<p>Speaking of a duplicatable guide, is there a song writing guide you can create for yourself?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe a step-by-step process for how to go from beginning to ending, and what elements you want to include in your different sections?<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, you can always ditch the guide on any individual song you&#8217;re working on&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But approaching the &#8220;canvas&#8221; of your DAW is a lot easier if you have a picture in your head of what you want to create, rather than coming to it with a completely blank mind.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you want some ideas for a guide, then download my free &#8220;Hit Creation Checklist&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I studied tons of hit songs, and listened to dozens of interviews from the songwriters who wrote them, and compiled all of their wisdom into one handy guide.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I discovered that there are really 9 key elements that all hit songs have in common, and these elements are things you might want to include in your songs.<\/p>\n<p>__CONFIG_group_edit__{}__CONFIG_group_edit____CONFIG_local_colors__{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;cd497&#8221;:&#8221;Background &#8220;,&#8221;144cd&#8221;:&#8221;Button &#8220;},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:{}}__CONFIG_local_colors__  <span style=\"width: 100%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"135\" height=\"210\" title=\"Hit Creation\" data-id=\"867\" src=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Hit-Creation.jpg\" style=\"\" data-width=\"135\" data-height=\"210\" data-init-width=\"512\" data-init-height=\"800\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Write A Hit Song!<\/h3>\n<p>Click below to download my free Hit Creation checklist which demystifies the songwriting process and boils down the techniques hit songwriters use into a simple 9-step formula.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>__CONFIG_colors_palette__{&#8220;active_palette&#8221;:0,&#8221;config&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;4b114&#8221;:{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Main Accent&#8221;,&#8221;parent&#8221;:-1}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;palettes&#8221;:[{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Default Palette&#8221;,&#8221;value&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;4b114&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(250, 194, 45)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:43,&#8221;s&#8221;:0.95,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.58}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;original&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;4b114&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(19, 114, 211)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:210,&#8221;s&#8221;:0.83,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.45}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__ <a href=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/hit\" style=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span><span>I Want To Write Better Songs!<\/span><\/span> <\/a><\/p>\n<p>Now, you of course don&#8217;t have to write hit songs to be successful, but it can&#8217;t hurt to at least learn what it is that makes a hit song, a hit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972127\">6. Complete Songwriting Exercises<\/h2>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"3298\" width=\"600\" data-init-width=\"780\" height=\"381\" data-init-height=\"495\" title=\"football the catch\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/football-the-catch.jpeg\" data-width=\"600\" data-height=\"381\" style=\"\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>My highschool football days. Go Rocks!<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes the thought of writing a whole song from scratch is just too much.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Instead, consider completing songwriting &#8220;exercises&#8221; or &#8220;drills&#8221; to build those songwriting muscles and skills.<\/p>\n<p>I love American football, and when teams practice, they rarely do a full-fledged scrimmage where they are simulating a real game environment.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Players usually break up by position and practice different drills, such as blocking, tackling, and so on, which are all vital elements of succeeding in the game.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You can think of writing a song as &#8220;game time&#8221;, but you don&#8217;t need&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972128\">7. Collaborate With Others<\/h2>\n<p>One of the fastest ways to learn and grow is by collaboration.<\/p>\n<p>I probably grew more as a producer and songwriter after one week of collaboration with my friend Levi Laubenthal, also the man behind the Ethereal Cinematic music project &#8220;NIGHT&#8221;, than I grew in a year on my own.<\/p>\n<p>By collaborating with others, you can break out of your rut and learn completely new strategies and dies for going about constructing a sound.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This will leave you with fresh and new tactics and skills that you can draw upon when writing your next song.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This is especially valuable if you can collaborate in person where you can actually see the other person(s) at work.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972129\">8. Listen To Music You Hate<\/h2>\n<p>Hey, it might feel a little pretentious and snobbish, but there&#8217;s nothing like listing to published music you find horrible to restore your confidence.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So find that band or artist whose music you can&#8217;t stand, yes, you know who I&#8217;m talking about, and give them a good listen.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>By the end, you should be thinking, &#8220;I can definitely make music better than that!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Of course, the reality is music is very subjectively, and everyone has different tastes, but that&#8217;s not important.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s important is that your confidence is restored, and it&#8217;s absolutely true that you can make better music for a certain audience of people than others can.<\/p>\n<p>So go do it!<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972130\">9. Take A Break<\/h2>\n<p>Trying to plow through the songwriting process when you&#8217;re frustrated or discouraged is just going to put you in a deeper hole.<\/p>\n<p>So take a break and do some activities that will boost your mood and clear your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe this means going on a walk outside, or working out, or playing a video game.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is for you that boost your mood and clears your mind, do this for a good 15-30 minutes and them come back and see if you don&#8217;t automatically have some fresh ideas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1636117318310\">10. Teach Songwriting To Others<\/h2>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"3300\" width=\"521\" data-init-width=\"521\" height=\"508\" data-init-height=\"508\" title=\"learning-pyramid2\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/learning-pyramid2.jpeg\" data-width=\"521\" data-height=\"508\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Studies show that you only retain about 5% of what you learn from a lecture.<\/p>\n<p>This improves to 10% when reading something like this article, and 20% when you get both audio and visual like you would from watching a YouTube video.<\/p>\n<p>(Wait, does this mean YouTube is better for teaching you stuff than college which just lectures you???? *Silently nodding* *Whispers: it&#8217;s also cheaper too*)<\/p>\n<p>Actually putting into practice what you learn, in other words applying what you&#8217;ve learned, boosts your learning retention to 75%! Wow!<\/p>\n<p>But this still falls short of actually teaching others what you&#8217;ve learned, which enables you to <strong>retain a whopping 90% of what you learn!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>This means if you want to learn a subject quickly, you need to teach on it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know, this sounds a little counter-intuitive to what we think we know about teaching. We think people have to be &#8220;experts&#8221; to teach on a subject, but this just isn&#8217;t true.<\/p>\n<p>We just have to be a couple steps ahead of the people we&#8217;re teaching in order to help them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So if you know any people, they could just be family or friends, who want to start writing songs but haven&#8217;t begun or are very new&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You would be a great person to teach them, and in return, you&#8217;ll learn a lot more about songwriting yourself!<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1635178972131\">One Final Tip&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>Don&#8217;t emotionally attach yourself to your songwriting results.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but in my experience, and what I&#8217;ve read about the experience of other famous songwriters&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Songwriting is a lot like archeology. You simply uncover the priceless artifacts, you don&#8217;t create them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Your brilliant songs are out there, you just have to uncover them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But because songwriting can be so indirect, we can&#8217;t attach ourselves emotionally to the result of any one songwriting session.<\/p>\n<p>If we did and don&#8217;t find anything, that&#8217;s great! We now know we need to go dig somewhere else.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So attach yourself to the PROCESS of songwriting, not the results.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You win with each new song you write.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Even if you write a piece of garbage, that still moves you one step closer to the goal, so you can feel good, and be proud of your garbage.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And when you&#8217;re feeling good about your songwriting process, it becomes much easier to write a lot of songs, progress faster, and start cranking out great music.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So get out there and write!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you want some simple guidelines to help you get started writing your next song, <a href=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/hit\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\" rel=\"noopener\">then definitely grab my free &#8220;Hit Creation Checklist&#8221;&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Which will walk you through the 9 key elements all the top songwriters tend to include in every song they write.<\/p>\n<p>__CONFIG_group_edit__{}__CONFIG_group_edit____CONFIG_local_colors__{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;cd497&#8221;:&#8221;Background &#8220;,&#8221;144cd&#8221;:&#8221;Button &#8220;},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:{}}__CONFIG_local_colors__  <span style=\"width: 100%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"135\" height=\"210\" title=\"Hit Creation\" data-id=\"867\" src=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Hit-Creation.jpg\" style=\"\" data-width=\"135\" data-height=\"210\" data-init-width=\"512\" data-init-height=\"800\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Write A Hit Song!<\/h3>\n<p>Click below to download my free Hit Creation checklist which demystifies the songwriting process and boils down the techniques hit songwriters use into a simple 9-step formula.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>__CONFIG_colors_palette__{&#8220;active_palette&#8221;:0,&#8221;config&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;4b114&#8221;:{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Main Accent&#8221;,&#8221;parent&#8221;:-1}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;palettes&#8221;:[{&#8220;name&#8221;:&#8221;Default Palette&#8221;,&#8221;value&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;4b114&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(250, 194, 45)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:43,&#8221;s&#8221;:0.95,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.58}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]},&#8221;original&#8221;:{&#8220;colors&#8221;:{&#8220;4b114&#8221;:{&#8220;val&#8221;:&#8221;rgb(19, 114, 211)&#8221;,&#8221;hsl&#8221;:{&#8220;h&#8221;:210,&#8221;s&#8221;:0.83,&#8221;l&#8221;:0.45}}},&#8221;gradients&#8221;:[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__ <a href=\"https:\/\/orpheusaudioacademy.com\/stagingnew\/hit\" style=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span><span>I Want To Write Better Songs!<\/span><\/span> <\/a><\/p>\n<p>I hope you got value from this post on how to overcome discouragement while songwriting.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If so, feel free to share with any other songwriters you know, and let me know in the comments&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>What, if you could achieve it in the next 90 days, would make the biggest positive difference in your life?<\/em><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Songwriting can be a discouraging endeavor, especially when you&#8217;re struggling to put together anything that sounds good to you. 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